The gift


Thank you, Lord, for these moments with her. Holding her hand in the theater and fighting back tears of happiness because this is what I always wanted. Here she was, and sitting next to me as if it was the easiest thing in the world. Thank you for letting me see her heart and to understand, at least in part, such a beautiful soul — a special soul that knows no equal. I get to hear what's in her heart, her mind, and to see your imprint on her. It's all over her, in, and through her. 

Thank you for letting me be something in her life. Just to be here is a miracle for which I am beyond grateful. She makes me incredibly happy, and I can't help but see her as a gift. I get to enjoy her, feel her warmth radiating next to me, revel in the scent of her skin, and bask in her laughter. And what beautiful laughter! I'm in love with the sound of her voice. I don't think there's a single thing about her I haven't fallen in love with. The sum total of her is probably more than I can process, so I break her beauty into pieces and enjoy her in a smaller way. I've often wondered how long I will feel this way. I don't see an end. I will carry these thoughts and feelings into eternity.

I am a mere man. Sometimes lonely. Sometimes sad. Often tired. Often strong. Sometimes weak. But there is something living in my chest that is beyond my comprehension, beyond my ability to control, made of something else, and it is completely in love with her. What was once off limits and out of reach is in my life! Still, it longs for more. It wants to always be near her. It wants to have and to hold. Every day I wake, my thoughts run to her. Do you see, reader, how I love her? It's a beautiful thing, yet I chose to give that beautiful thing to one I love even more, my God. Yes, I dedicated our friendship to Him. It's His, and He will do whatever He wishes with it. I gave this beautiful gift to the One I love most. What He does with it fills me with anticipation. Some things are too good to keep to oneself, and who else to give such a splendid gift than to the One who holds us in His hands. Amen. 

Thank you for reading. And God bless.

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